When approaching women, even before you’ve said a single word or done anything, she has already subconsciously put you into one of three categories:
- I Like Him
- I Don’t Like Him
Now that you’re aware of the three different categories, let’s go over the strengths and weaknesses of each.
Category #1: I like Him
If you happen to look or remind her of someone that she liked, if you dress in a way that she finds attractive or anything else that she happens to connect with, she’ll probably like you. Congrats! You have a leg up on ‘the competition’ when it comes to taking it to the next level, and it’s all on you now.
If you fall in the “Average Guy” category, you can expect this to happen with about 10 percent of the women that you meet who are available.
Category #2: I Don’t Like Him
You ever meet someone, and for no apparent or real good reason, you don’t like them?
Women are the same way, and for good measure, a lot of women throw insecure men with a whole slew of petty reasons.
You’ll fall into this category about 10 percent of the time if your just an average guy. Unless you have some unknown outside factor to enhance you (hot ex still after you, famous, rich, etc.); there is nothing you can say or do that is going to get this woman to change her mind and be into you. Nothing.
Category #3: Undecided
The majority of the time (about 80 percent), if you’re an average guy, you’re going to fall in this category.
If you’ve done your ‘homework’ and read up on seduction and how to attract women, you’ll know that this is the perfect place to be. As long as you are in the “Undecided” category you can work on creating the attraction in a woman that you want.
Of course, this is the time for you to get your life in order so that when you approach a woman that you find to be a potential partner, and she is thinking to herself “maybe or maybe not” in the time it takes to have a of a cup of coffee or tea, you can turn that “maybe” into a “yes”, and dramatically increase your chances when you find “the One”.